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What to Wear: Meeting His Family

Dec 19, 2012 at 4:00am by Lauren Conrad
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If you’re coupled up this holiday season, it’s likely that a meet and greet with your beau’s parents is in your near future. Lucky for you, dressing to impress your guy’s family is a topic I’m familiar with... Today I’m sharing an updated version of my Meet the Parents Style Guide. Read on for my tips to help you make a dazzling first impression when the occasion does arise…

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For a Casual Sunday Brunch

If you’re meeting your boyfriend’s parents under casual circumstances—say, a weekend brunch—you should still dress a little nicer than you normally would. It would be a bit cheeky if you showed up to brunch wearing a black mini dress and gold hoop earrings, don’t you think? Instead, opt for a cowl neck sweater, skinny jeans, riding boots, and a classic purse. Classic, conservative style will win you big points in mom and dad’s book.

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For Dinner at Home

If you’re meeting your man’s parents at his family’s house for dinner, your look doesn’t necessarily need to be dressy, but you should appear put-together and comfortable. A modest blouse paired with a feminine skirt, ballet flats and simple jewelry will tell them you’re sweet and confident. Keep your appearance prim and proper with natural makeup (minimal is best) and clean, simple hair. Also, adding personalized elements to your ensemble could be a great topic for conversation at the dinner table. Wear your favorite color or sport a special piece of jewelry that holds sentimental value.

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For a Holiday Party

Keep your look demure, modest and pretty if you’re meeting the parents at a holiday soirée. You want to come across as a classy young lady, so choose something like a feminine lace dress, classic pumps, and a fun clutch. Make sure you aren’t trying anything too trendy or bold. Instead, have fun by adding complementary accessories to your look. Timeless staples will always get you more style points (and girlfriend points) than anything too experimental when the time has come to meet the folks.

Dressing the part is key in making a great first impression when meeting your guy’s parents. Focus on a look that channels classic, ladylike style and remember to be yourself. And while clothes definitely play a role in your presentation, what's more important is how you behave: Nothing will knock their socks off like a confident, polite, self-assured and well-mannered young lady. And don't stress, if he loves you then they most likely will too!

What types of holiday fetes are you heading to this season?

P.S. I’ve been seeing many requests for a Ladylike Laws blog about the correct etiquette to keep in mind when meeting your man’s parents. Stay tuned—this post is coming soon!

XO Lauren

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    • Thelma Jofre
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      Great outfit ideas!! http://dreamliveandrepeat.blogspot.com/
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      I love the first outfit, it's simple and cute, super outfit! <3
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      Great outfits! Each ensemble embraces femininity, fun and class in a simple fashion.
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      Just in love of the "Casual Sunday brunch" outfit! So simple but also so beautiful!
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      Wow! I love all of the outfits! Thanks:)
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      Amazing combination!!!! love it!!!giulia

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      I like all these ideas
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    • Ashley Pearl
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      Dec 25, 2012 at 9:10am
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      I really want to get the "Casual Sunday Brunch" outfit!! Where did all of the items come from?? Brands etc? Thanks!! <3
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    • Lena Ameri
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      Dec 25, 2012 at 1:13am
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      These are great ideas, wish I found it when I was planning my holiday party outfit! I found an adorable classic peplum red dress from Bebe that I paired with black pumps with subtle lace, a statement necklace, and delicate bracelet.

      Also don't forget to do your nails! Moms always notice that stuff! french is always safe!

      Have fun! =)

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      Such cute and simple outfits!

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      where can I find those brown boots? Have been looking for a pair forever!
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      So glad that's behind me... Nice outfit though xoxo

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      Very cute options!

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      Dec 20, 2012 at 11:12am
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      Nice Lauren, just on time! I'm meeting my boyfriends dads side of the family this weekend, so I will definitely keep these tips in mind when I'm picking my outfit :)

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      Nice Lauren! Your outfits are really ideal for us. I will do a tweet for you.

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      This will come in handy tomorrow!!

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      Cute outfits! :D

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      Dec 19, 2012 at 10:59am
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      Cute outfits...I love the dress in "for dinner" at home", though I might pair with leggings for meeting the 'rents.
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      does anyone know where the sweater and jeans in the casual sunday brunch outfit are from? I love that whole outfit!
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      Love all of these options!
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      Does anyone know where the dress is from in the 'dinner at home' outfit?
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