Dress Coding: Bridal Shower Attire
Whether you like it or not, wedding season is upon us. With weddings come bridal showers along with a whole slew of related events. After a recent shower I attended for one of my good friends I realized that many of the girls in my group didn't know what to wear to the occasion. Questions such as "Can I wear white or cream?" became the centerpiece of conversation leading up to the shower. This got me thinking that many of you might find yourself wondering the same thing so I thought I'd do a blog about it. As with all things, there are some general rules of thumb when it comes to dressing for a bridal shower. Here's what you need to know:
- Let the bride-to-be wear white. It's a subtle way to let her shine on her big day. Personally, I would even steer away from creams and ivory as well. Nude shades and white dresses with colorful prints are fine, but solid whites should be reserved for the star of the show: The Bride.
- Stay away from red. It may seem trite, but red is considered to be a "vulgar" hue associated with adultery. Not exactly appropriate for celebrating your friend's upcoming nuptials. Red is also a "look-at-me" color. Again, let the bride bask in the spotlight. Save your LRD for that hot date you have planned...and wear that LPD instead.
- Try not to wear black. This is a completely personal opinion, but I wouldn't recommend wearing black to a bridal shower. It reminds me of mourning. Instead, wear a pretty color or print to show optimism for your friend's new beginnings.
Well that's it for bridal shower wardrobe etiquette! Now for the fun part... Here are my top picks on what to wear to a bridal shower:
If you're the bride-to-be, wear white. I like both of these little numbers...
Theyskens' Theory Dystie Dress
J.Crew Eyelet Dress
If you're attending a shower, try one of these paired with a nice cardigan and heels or pretty flats...
LC Lauren Conrad Ruffle Hi-Low Dress
Anthropologie Macquarie Dress
Vanessa Bruno Silk Dress
LC Lauren Conrad Polka-Dot Pleated Dress
Anthropologie Burgeoning Hypericum Dress (This is the dress I actually wore to my friend's bridal shower.)
Which dress is your favorite?
Also, if you have any fun game ideas for bridal showers, let me know in the comments below!
As far as what to wear on the big day, be sure to check out my wedding attire style guide!
XO Lauren
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These are all gorgeous! But I sometimes feel strange wearing white to a wedding :/
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I love the light pink H&M dress! I am a March bride and have been thinking about what to wear to my upcoming shower! Thanks for the cute suggestions! I would love to read your suggestions for the bridal shower games!
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What is everyones opinion on wearing a long nude dress to a black tie wedding? Would match it with bold colour accessories eg, red lipstick, black shoes etc.
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I'm totally feeling this post! I definitely need a new necklace storage. I also need a good place to hang my bags and purses..still looking for one! Any ideas?
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hey Lauren! this is a really great post, but i have another issue coming up in June! my boyfriend is taking me back to Indiana where all his family lives (his mom is one of 10 brothers / sisters - eeeek!) and his cousin who is our age, 24, is getting married and invited us to the wedding. i need some help getting a dress because i don't want anything too flashy or expensive because they aren't into name brand clothing as much. obviously i do not want to steal from the bride either but it's a June wedding in the afternoon so i want something that will br bright and cheery and stand out! do you have any advice or does anyone else? maybe someone who has been back to the midwest, i would love just any advice!
thanks!!
susie x X
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My favorite dress is the Macquarie Dress from Anthropologie. It touches on so many trends for spring- it's floral and has pastel colors. It doesn't hurt that it's from my favorite store either!
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i love the h&m pink lace dress and your LC polka dotted dress! love it love it! bridal showers are a great place to wear a flirty, girly dress without having to worry about looking sexy! = )
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I'm going to a baptism in a couple weeks and had no idea what to wear. I'm thinking a dress like this could be appropriate. Love the polka dot Kohls dress!
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I love the first rule: don't wear white! I have seen so many women at bridal showers and weddings wear white! It is so annoying and rude.
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The powder pink lace dress from H&M is my favorite!
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I've never had to think about this because none of my close friends have gotten married yet, however I've had a few friends get engaged lately so I guess I will need to start thinking about it soon! Great tips...thanks for sharing! Such a helpful/cute post idea :)
~Jacy
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I love the white dresses. They are stunning!
Love from South Africa
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AAh! this is great! The powder pink lace dress is tooo cute! Gotta hit H&M now!
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I love your pink dress! Could you guys please post some stuff on summer finds, sucha as tops and shorts for different body types. I'm petite (5'2'' and an XS) and love all of the crop top looks as well as longer length ones but nothing fits me well and I need help!
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Love that Anthropologie dress!
Cute bridal shower game - Have each guest write down words of wisdom to the bride and groom. Read their note before opening their gift! Simple and cute. http://sharingmysole.blogspot.com/
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I agree, don't wear white, red or black to a bridal shower! I really love the Powder Pink lace dress from H&M!
Liesl xxx
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Great tips! I alos love all the dresses you picked out!
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